Attitude: What Women See in Men

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When it comes to seducing a woman, attitude plays a very big role in how successful, or unsuccessful you will be. If you have a positive attitude you are more likely to attract women more easily than a guy with a negative attitude. Being positive and upbeat shows in nearly everything you do, as does being negative and glum. Women are much more likely to choose the positive, upbeat guy.

First, a positive attitude reflects confidence and self-respect. As anyone would probably guess, confidence and self-respect are vital. A positive attitude directly affects how other people feel when they are around you. For example, have you ever had a friend or co-worker who was always down or pessimistic?

If you have, did you notice that after a while his or her mood started making you feel down or uncomfortable or irritable? Chances are it has happened to most of us. Therefore remember, if for no other reason than to not be a dark cloud hanging over everyone’s head, try your best to be positive and have a good attitude.

It even goes much further than that. When you are trying to make your best impression on a woman, being negative will not work. You have to feel good before you can make anyone else feel good. You have to radiate the same kinds of feelings you want to receive. If you are not giving off those positive vibes, ladies do pick up on it and most likely steer clear of you.

The bottom line is that women like to find a man who is stable. Part of what women judge stability on is your work. No, this doesn’t mean you need to be a rocket scientist. It simply means that if you are changing jobs every couple of months, or getting let go for poor attitude or poor performance, which is directly affected by your attitude, then she may likely think twice before getting further involved with you. Remember, women are looking for a partner; a 50 – 50 partnership.

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  1. Abbbey

    October 16, 2016

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