You have approached the object of your desires. You have got a first date. How do you carry it off and make sure she is “hooked” on you?
Here’s a little secret that has been proven to do some magic – humour.
If you can make a girl laugh and giggle, then a lot of the hard work of seduction is done. This is so because laughing makes people happy – it releases endorphins in the brain which make us feel good. And we like being around people who make us feel good.
It is also a very good form of relaxation – laughing is known to lower the rate of heartbeat. If a girl feels happy and relaxed around you on a first date, that counts as a lot of mileage along the dating road.
It is natural on a first date for the barriers to be up – she will be mentally screening you, checking you out. It can make for a very nervy encounter on both sides. But with the use of humour, you make her smile, make her laugh and she becomes relaxed and open. And that should be your goal for a first date.
So in what manner should you use humour?
Well, I’m not advocating you be a clown. Do not go overboard, and don’t just mindlessly memorise loads of jokes and reel them off – if she had wanted to go and see a stand up comedian, she would not be on a date with you.
A few jokes are good There are loads of comedy books or materials online that you can pick from. Find a handful of good jokes and memorise them. Throw in one or two slightly risqué ones if you feel she is warming to you (but not overly smutty or chauvinistic). You should mind the road now and not skid over 🙂
Joke about your environment – the surroundings you are in.
Tell her funny stories and anecdotes about your past, your work, your experiences. Prepare in advance and think of these things in advance.
Watch comedies on television or get some comedy and stand up comedy DVD’s. These will give you a few funny sketches you can reel off, plus they will help you “tune in” to being funny.
Remember, your aim when using humour is to make her smile, laugh and relax. You should be able to quickly assess what kind of things make her laugh and adjust your humour accordingly. You don’t want her rolling around on the floor, crying with laughter.
Learn how to put a woman at ease with humour and you will never have a problem seducing the woman of your dreams. I’m sure the ladies agree with me on this one 🙂
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