Still Waiting for Ms. Perfect?

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It must be really tough. Do you think you are just a victim of bad luck and that is the reason Ms. Perfect has not appeared in your life? Or have you decided that maybe Ms. Perfect only exists on movie screens and not out here in the real world? BINGO! You just figured it out. She doesn’t exist anywhere except in your imagination and on movie screens.

The truth of the matter is that the reason Ms. Perfect has not appeared has nothing to do with your luck, good or bad, but everything to do with you and the fact that you are busy looking for a person that does not exist! You can’t date with your eyes closed and some impossible dream in your head. You have got so caught up in this whole exercise of dating that you forget to look for the qualities you seek! You haven’t met the person of your dreams because you are not looking for the things that will make them close enough to being perfect for you.

You are so confident that every woman you have met could not give you what you wanted. But what was it that you wanted in the first place? Once you are sure of what you want, you will know exactly what to look for in your woman. What are the qualities that you feel are necessary in a person? What are the attributes you are willing to make a compromise on? Have you thought about all of these things?

Remember, that nobody on this earth is perfect. Everybody has faults – some are bigger, some are small. Some are faults you can overlook and some are faults that you couldn’t overlook on your best day even if she was the most beautiful, most sexy woman on the planet.

When you meet a woman, remember, however hard you try to impress others, you cannot control their thought processes. Instead, it is far better to concentrate on your needs and desires, and how much of what you need would be fulfilled if you dated this woman.

And yes of course, there are two sides to a coin. For the ladies out there also waiting for Mr perfect, same applies to you. Time and tide they say wait for nobody.

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  1. Ayobee Sunshine Mensah

    September 13, 2016

    There is nothing like perfect, we only want a friend indeed, someone who will accept u for who u are n who u will lead on in times of troubles n pains. Someone who will share ur Joy n who will love u n ur kids.

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